When Mara Fowler, RN, from ProHealth Physicians’ Goldstar Pediatrics, walked into this year’s Sages of Clinical Service Award ceremony, she wasn’t alone. Her husband, recently retired from the Navy as a Master Chief, was by her side. "After so many years of going to formal events for him," she laughs, "it was weird to have him come to something for me."
Nursing wasn’t Mara’s first career. She spent years as a stay-at-home mom, managing her husband’s deployments — which could stretch from four weeks to six months — and raising two children. "I always thought I’d be a schoolteacher," she says. But life had other plans.
As a military spouse, Mara needed a career that could move with the family. Nursing offered that flexibility — and turned out to be the perfect fit. "Nursing is a lot of teaching too," she says. "And I get to work with kids. It’s awesome to watch them grow up and build trust with their parents."
Mara began nursing school in 2016, balancing coursework with bartending at the Submarine Veterans Club, Groton Base. "My kids weren’t exactly helpful during nursing school," she jokes. "But my husband was amazing. If he wasn’t at sea, he was home with them so I could focus."
Mara and her husband, both from Ohio, share a sweet twist of fate: They grew up seeing the same pediatrician. "One Christmas, we were back home and had to take our baby in. The same nurse who saw us as kids met our little one. That’s a memory I’ll always carry."
Now Mara is the one handing out stickers and lollipops, comforting nervous little ones who still run into the office excited to see her. "Even when I have to give them shots, they still want to sit on my lap. That’s the most rewarding part."
Although Mara and her family have lived in Connecticut for 12 years, one of the most formative chapters of her journey began much earlier — back in Hawaii, before nursing was even on her radar.
"When my kids were little, we had no family nearby. It was scary," she recalls. "But I had someone at the pediatric office I could call and trust. I want to be that person for the families I care for now."
She understands that parents often call not just for medical advice but for reassurance. "I’ve been there. I have kids. I know what you’re going through," she says. "It helps to see things from the parents’ perspective. I just want to be helpful."
For Mara, pediatric nursing is about more than caring for children — it’s about supporting families. “Two parents might call at the same time with the same concern — say, a rash. But one has a fourth child, and the other has a first. You don’t approach those calls the same way.”
“You meet each parent where they are,” she continues, “and give them what they need to feel confident caring for their child."
That’s exactly what Mara does — meet families where they are, with compassion, experience and a whole lot of heart.